I don’t post about the music I listen to very often, in fact never would be closer to the mark, but I’ve recently thanks to the wonders of Rdio discovered this album. It’s a largely instrumental piece which suits me while I’m working. This weekend a friend of mine pointed out that it bares some similarities to Coldplay with out the words, probably explains why it’s been on my stereo constantly for the last few days then.
I love the idea of clever small space living. The idea of a well designed space that offers a lot of utility like this is very appealing to me. That dining table is genius and for me epitomises the whole idea.
At the start of every year, I, along with millions of others around the world, make resolutions. We decide, often quite flippantly, to do certain things. It could be to change a habit, lose weight, or to get fitter and just “be healthier”. But 99% of the time they are lofty goals that last only a couple of weeks, a month or maybe six weeks if you really try hard, but they rarely last.
As I began thinking about my resolutions for the year, I made my usual trip to the dictionary for a definition.
• a firm decision to do or not to do something.
• a formal expression of opinion or intention agreed on by a legislative body, committee, or other formal meeting, typically after taking a vote.
• the quality of being determined or resolute.
It struck me that a resolution is much more than the lofty ambitions we make at the start of each year. They are intentional. A committee will not vote a formal resolution into place without having a firm intention to follow through with it. Yet very often we determine what our new year’s resolutions will be simply by a fleeting desire or a momentary decision. We base them on nothing more than what we think is going to be a beneficial thing for us to do. We’re not intentional in our thoughts and often do not stand firmly behind our decisions, evidenced by the same resolutions recurring year after year. In stark contrast, a real resolution is intended, it has purpose, it is designed.
• something that is intended; purpose; design;
A resolution is pointless if we have not considered why. Why do we want to get up earlier? Why do we want to use our time better? Why do we want to be fitter? All of these are good things but why do we want to do them? If we decide to do these things without thinking about the real purpose, they will never stick.
To make them stick, we must go further than think about why we want to do them. Once we have a firm motivation in place, we must design that resolution using our motivation as a basis. As it says in Proverbs chapter 14 and verse 15:
“A simple man believes anything, but a prudent man gives thought to his steps.”
If we resolve to just do something without thought we not only waste time, we waste our intentions and we waste energy. It’s hard enough to gain momentum when beginning a new thing that has a clear motivation, but gaining momentum on something without a clear aim or goal? That’s likely to end in a failure which has an impact on other plans we make. Once we are discouraged by something it’s very hard to recover the confidence and enthusiasm that we need to start something. The memory of failing at one thing lingers at the back of our minds and saps at what little confidence or belief we have about the new thing.
If you’re reading this as it approaches the second half of January, and you’re struggling to stick to the resolutions you made only a couple of weeks ago, I encourage you to stop for a moment and ask yourself why you wanted to do them in the first place. If you can’t find a concrete answer, maybe it’s time to reconsider. So many times I’ve heard someone declare they want to do something, but because of a lack of a defined destination they struggle, become discouraged and lose all motivation. A complete waste of that initially well placed intention. Don’t waste that limited supply of energy you have trying to build momentum behind something that’s just a shallow thought. Instead put it into a resolution that has a destination, something that has value.
“The best” isn’t necessarily a product or thing. It’s the reward for winning the battle fought between patience, obsession, and desire. It takes an unreasonably long amount of time to find the best of something. It requires that you know everything about a product’s market, manufacture, and design, and that you can navigate deceptive pricing and marketing. It requires that you find the best thing for yourself, which means you need to know what actually matters to you.
I’ve been after something like this for ages on my iPad and iPhone. Excellent stuff.
It doesn’t feel like it’s been just over 3 months since I announced my move to self employment. The time has flown by pretty quickly and I’m happy to say that I’m managing to pay the bills & eat so I must doing something right (right?).
As with every small business client work takes focus to personal work, so whilst most of you were enjoying Christmas holidays I took the break from client work as an opportunity to get my new site finished. If any business, especially a design one, is going to survive it needs somewhere to showcase it’s work which is the main focus of the new 18TWO website. At the moment there is a small selection of some of the work I’ve done in the last 3 months and I’ll be working to add some older stuff in the coming weeks along with making the site responsive for those of us with iPhones/smart phones.
Please jump over to the new site, have a look, poke around and (a cheeky one this) share with your friends, colleagues and family. Of course if you like what you see and would like to work with me please do get in touch.